How Do You Want It To Feel?
Wednesday, December 30th, 2009Those of us who do spiritual retreats know that you can and should engineer the energy of the space of an event long before you enter it. Setting out intentions, creating a physical environment that reflects those intentions, and then creating and holding space to facilitate those intentions into reality are the ways to create a great environment for your event. Below is a list of elements to consider as you create your ideal workshop space.
Physical Space
The physical space in which you hold an event is critical to its success. Too big, too small, too loud, or too soft can spell the different between success and disaster. It’s particularly important when running a spiritual retreat that you have a space that is energetically solid to hold the work you intend to do there. Picking a site where the owners have done this for you is a great start. But if you don’t have this luxury, then you can do some work up front to make your event experience ideal.
The Room
The room, furniture, and site are all factors that contribute to the overall impression of an event. A hotel ballroom is generally cold and cavernous, a stone mansion with a roaring fire will have a warmer feel. There are emotions evoked from the setting in which you place your event. A blank canvas (such as the hotel ballroom) can be painted to a certain extent, but there are limits. You will want to carefully assess what you need your environment to be in order to best create the space you are looking to set.
The Furniture
Once you know your sit, then the furniture will likely come with the space, but consider carefully if you want it. Some chairs can’t hold over a certain weight. Others are just plain uncomfortable. If you know you’re going to be sitting a lot, you’d better make certain the chairs are comfortable. Then there’s a matter of arranging the furniture. You’ll want to be certain that your format fits the function of the event. Remember that round tables are great for discussion, but half of the people will have their backs to you. Chairs set in rows need to be far enough apart for people to get in and out when others are seated. There should ALWAYS be a center aisle when you are set up lecture style so that the rows don’t go on forever and for ease of entrance and exit. If you want people to buy things from you while you are there, then you will want to seat them close together to create a sense of urgency later.
Other Issues
What are you handing out at the beginning of your events? What are people being asked to carry around with them? Do they have a sense of their own space within the environment or are they one of the herd? What temperature are you keeping the environment at – or are you changing it around? What clothing are you telling people to wear? Are you asking people not to wear scents?
Clearing The Energy Grid
If you’re going to have a spiritual or transformational event in a space that is used for anything other than these purposes, then I highly recommend clearing the energy grid before you get started. The last thing you want is to have a bunch of leftover angst from someone’s wedding reception wreaking havok on your sacred event space. If you don’t know how to clear the grids of a space, then I’d suggest calling in a professional. I recommend David Franklin Farkas, a.k.a. The House Healer (www.HouseHealing.com). He does great work for a reasonable price and it’s all remote, so you don’t have to pay for travel.
Workshop Format
The next thing you need to take into account is what you’ll be doing in the workshop. what exercises are you running and what will you need for those exercises? For instance, journaling could require either a table or a binder to form a hard surface. Are you creating a space in which participants will be in physical contact or not? If so, you’ll want to give them some room so they feel like they can leave if they need to. Are you having them move around or stay still? What special effects (ritual tech) will you be doing (if any)? If you’re doing any sort of challenging or transformational work, you’ll need to know where you’re planning on taking the people who melt down.
Staff Preparation
How many people are you going to need to run your event? If you’re running a retreat, some of the staff will be yours and others will belong to the site. Know how much you can depend on site staff and what you need to cover yourself. If you’re running a smaller event, then you will want to have at least one person to act as your problem solver and greeter so you can stay focused on creating the space you need to create.
Greeting = Creating
How your attendees are greeted will determine the energetic space in which they’ll arrive at the event. Your staff will need to know how to greet your attendees for maximum efficacy. A grumpy staff person can mean the difference between a well-set environment and one where some of the people come in rattled and upset. Not a good start to a day. Having a set patter will help your staff to know what is expected of them.
Problem Solver
You’ll also need a problem-solver on staff – someone whose job it is to fix whatever is broken. This person will be the go-to person for the rest of the staff. They will get handed any problem item or person so that the rest of the staff can stay on task.
Energetic Space
The last item is the one that most people miss. This is the energetic space. You create this with your tone of voice, your attitude, your energy level and the cadence of your speech as well as through your choice of words. All of these factor in. But long before your attendees arrive, you need to be setting the physical space. The night before, you should have control of the room and walk through it setting intentions for the day and visualizing a positive outcome for your event. Look at all aspects of the experience, both for yourself and your attendees and create a positive intention for each aspect.
The morning of the event, gather your staff together to create a group vision of a positive event. Get everyone’s energy involved. Then get them moving – chanting, singing, dancing, clapping, stomping, whatever it takes to amp up the energy in the room to prepare it for your attendees’ arrival. It will also get your staff’s energy in the right place to model the energy you want from people as they walk in the door.
Summary
Everything you do affects the energy of your event. From the moment you conceive of the idea until you put it in motion, you are adding to the energetic of it. If you put the time into planning and the thought into the design and then the energy into the event, you’ll have a successful program in no time!



